Have you ever walked down the stairs in the dark? You get to what feels like the last step, but you're not totally sure, so you cautiously stretch your foot forward—testing before trusting. You want to know you're on solid ground.
I think that's often how I approach change—timidly, carefully, poking my foot into the unknown to make sure it'll hold. And while there's a time and place for discernment, I don't think we were created to live afraid of the next step.
We were made for bold, tenacious faith. Not reckless, but rooted—steady, not because we know what the future holds, but because we know the One who holds it.
Herein lies the rub: life is often uncertain, and yet we're called to walk forward with confidence. How do those two things go hand in hand?
I think about the ocean. The waves are powerful, constant, sometimes overwhelming—but always present. They rise and fall with rhythm, pulled upon by the moon, time, and tides.
Just like seasons. Just like change.
“We have this hope as an anchor to the soul, firm and secure.”
And while we can't stop the waves from coming, we can anchor in. Just like a ship uses its anchor to stay steady amidst the waves, we can anchor ourselves in faith, in our relationships, and in grounding routines to weather life's storms.
It doesn't mean we won't feel the tossing. It doesn't mean we won't get seasick. It means we won't be lost at sea.
Even the wind and waves, in their chaos, are consistent. They come, yes—but if we're still here to see them, it means we're still breathing. It means there's another sunrise. Another invitation. Another moment of mercy. It means there is still hope.
“Because of the Lord’s great love, we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.”
In navigating the ebb and flow of life, I've found that my anchors come in various forms, much like the steady pull of the tides. My husband stands as a steadfast support, and his unwavering presence is a constant reminder of love and partnership. The routines I've established provide comfort and predictability, guiding me through the chaos of daily life. Friends and loved ones also serve as crucial anchors, their laughter and support lifting me during tumultuous times. Together, they create a solid foundation, allowing me to weather life's storms while still reaching, in confidence, for the stars above.
“Even the wind and waves obey Him.”
When I think about the kind of life I want to live—and the kind of legacy I want to leave behind—steady is the word that comes to mind. Not because I never waver. Not because life is easy. But because I know Who I'm anchored in.
I want my life to be a witness to peace in the middle of change.
To hope in the middle of uncertainty.
To mercy in the middle of the storm.
A Prayer for a Heart of Steadiness
Lord, help me to trust You when I can't see the shore. Let Your presence be my anchor. Remind me that I don't have to fear the waves when You are in my boat. Amen.